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Open Conversations: A Path to Healthy Masculinity
I met Sachin Shinde, a 34-year-old farmer from Nandwal village. He had just returned from the fields, tired, and was sitting at his doorstep with a mobile phone in his hand. I approached him and asked for some time, and when I started the conversation, he happily agreed. His wife is currently working as a member of the Nandwal Gram Panchayat.I shared with him some information about the Joyful Village research, where the community members themselves had taken initiative and worked. He expressed…See More
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- Male
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- Shahrukh Atpade
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- Avani Organization, Kolhapur.
- About Me:
- I am working in a social organization called Avani Sanstha. I love working for child rights.
- My dream:
- 1. Overcoming Shortcomings
Personal Growth: The idea is for individuals to move past their perceived limitations or obstacles. This involves focusing on their strengths rather than dwelling on weaknesses.
Empowerment: By letting go of self-doubt and negative perceptions, people can tap into their true potential.
2. Recognizing and Utilizing Strengths
Self-Awareness: Encouraging people to understand and acknowledge their unique abilities and talents.
Effective Application: Using these strengths effectively to drive personal and community growth.
3. Leadership and Problem-Solving
Becoming Leaders: Inspiring individuals to take on leadership roles, where they can guide and influence positive change.
Community Impact: Addressing and solving local problems through innovative ideas and collective action.
4. Potential of Youth at the Village Level
Energy and Innovation: Young people in villages often have fresh perspectives and energy that can lead to new initiatives and improvements.
Encouragement and Support: Providing motivation and resources to these young individuals to harness their potential and drive change.
5. Encouragement and Support
Building Confidence: Providing support and encouragement to help individuals believe in their capabilities.
Creating Opportunities: Offering resources and platforms for young people to express their ideas and make a difference.
- I'm proud of:
- I am proud that through the Avani organization, I am encouraging people at the village level to recognize their own strengths and how to use them. When people come together using their own strengths to solve their personal and community problems or make efforts towards that, it fills me with great pride.
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Shahrukh Atpade's Blog
Open Conversations: A Path to Healthy Masculinity
Posted on September 10, 2025 at 12:13pm 0 Comments 1 Like
I met Sachin Shinde, a 34-year-old farmer from Nandwal village. He had just returned from the fields, tired, and was sitting at his doorstep with a mobile phone in his hand. I approached him and asked for some time, and when I started the conversation, he happily agreed. His wife is currently working as a member of the Nandwal Gram Panchayat.
I shared with him some information about the Joyful Village research, where the community members themselves had taken initiative and worked. He…
When Men Open Up: Reflections from a Village Katta
Posted on September 9, 2025 at 7:15am 1 Comment 2 Likes
This evening, around six o’clock, I set out for Nandwal village. My purpose today was to meet the men of the village. I know that on Mondays, many men and young people are on holiday, so I try to meet them at that time.
I saw a few men sitting on the katta, chatting. I joined their discussion and quietly listened for some time. They were talking about several issues related to the development of the village. For nearly half an hour, I just listened to what they were saying. Then, I asked…
Unspoken Struggles: A SALT Conversation on Masculinity and Change
Posted on September 8, 2025 at 1:02pm 0 Comments 1 Like
On the evening of September 4th, I went to Nandwal village for my regular SALT activity. As I walked through Patil Galli, I noticed a man standing outside his house. I introduced myself and asked if he could spare some time for a conversation. He gladly agreed, and our discussion began.I asked him if he could recall any joyful events in his life. Without a moment’s delay, he shared: I used to be a farmer. But now, I supply milk in the city. I own six cows, and that’s how we run our…
ContinueLazim, Memories, and Masculinity
Posted on August 31, 2025 at 2:30pm 2 Comments 4 Likes
Visiting Nandwal village every day and meeting people has now become a part of my life. Whenever I arrive at the office, I always feel a special sense of joy, because I eagerly look forward to hearing what good things I will learn from the community that day.
On that day, when I went to the village, I saw a man sitting with a mobile phone in his hand, wearing slightly untidy clothes. I approached him and introduced myself. He immediately recognized me and said, I often see you in the…
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- At 7:29pm on September 13, 2021,
Rituu B. Nanda said…
Dear Shahrukh,
Welcome to Community Life Competence!
Could you add your picture, as it adds a human touch to your profile? (go to 'settings' then 'upload photo')
Connect with members: Under the Tab with ‘Members’ you can find people to connect with and members who share similar interest.
Post your experience: You can share your experiences with local responses through putting up a blog. To post a blog, first sign in, then go to top of the page and click on the blue button ‘Our Stories’ and click on ‘+ Add ’. You can also comment on blogs posted by other members.
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