Story from Siti Aminah - Manonjayan..

[wiwin winarni]

I just received phone from Siti Aminah, a midwives, at Manonjaya Tasikmalaya. All of us ar inspired by support team particularly JL's story about his wife's support to his jobs. Siti Aminah learned and experienced that her husband sacrifices and more supportive to her activities and jobs after she appreciate her husband's opinion, responces and attituted towards her. Initially her husband was sometimes oponents but then she found thta he is trully her partner's of her life...

[Laurence Gilliot]

Here a message from Wiwin, that I got on my page. Just wanted to share this with all of you.

Dear Laurence;

Siti asked her husband and her daugthers to join her at family day by her office last week. Non of them were interested to join. Her husband even didn't think that its good way spending holiday. Siti again asked them to join but all of them refused. At last Siti said that she appreciate their decision but so sorry thta she had to join the family day at her office because she has team building activity at the act. Siti confirmed me thta her husband was smile and said that: Ok I will be your driver to the family day..!!. That's really surprised Siti. And she felt so happy with this. SALT really eases my life, she said.

[Laurence Gilliot]

Dear Wiwin,

Thank you for your encouraging message. How did Siti talk to her husband? How did she manage to trigger that shift from being an opponent to being an ally? Did she say something special? Did she listen in a particular way?
A lot of beautiful things happen when we start appreciating people around us. It opens the door for a deeper understanding of each other, more compassion...

Cheers,

Laurence