Last week I was visited by NGO namely RESIC in which I become one of its' advisor. We plan to have garbage project at my residence site. They were six members of RESIC. Three young lecturers (F) and others were students of them (2F and 1 M). Lecturers dominated discussion and the rest and me silently listened. Finally they asked me to speak. I thougth its my show time. I asked Lina, a student, to think about Ai's strentghs, another student. Others were look at me, and asked me why did I do so. I just invited Lina to speak. Then we know Ai, the silent member, are very detail and consistent member who ia also very comitted and equip her self with complete notes of every single discussion we had at NGO.
I invited, Tata- a young lecturer. she shared to us Lina's strenghts. Tata could not escape from being taught Lina what should Lina do according her strengths. Tata also critisizing Lina about her last performance. And certaintly Lina was embarassed. But then Tata corrected her statement.
What I learned is that, we need to feel to be equal isn't it? to be able to see objectively other strenghts. Previously, I felt so cool if I could suggest others to what should be and what shouldn't be. No I try to eliminate this. Thanks Ai, Lina and Tata..you three were bridging me afford this level of conscientization.