Unity Through Positive Thoughts: The Unique Expression of Manhood

[Nityam Ghosh]

Today, a meaningful SALT session was held with Mr. Basant Chik Baraik, a 37-year-old community member from the Basa Line area of Bhatapara Tea Garden. Our conversation focused on the theme of masculinity, and it turned out to be both joyful and deeply inspiring.

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One key highlight was the strong sense of unity in his village. Mr. Basant shared that whether it’s a ritual, festival, or wedding, the entire community participates in solidarity, exemplifying mutual cooperation and brotherhood.

We moved on to discuss his proud moments in life. His story reflected admirable traits such as honesty, respect for time, wisdom, and an unwavering cheerful spirit. He emphasized that no matter how big the challenges, changes come with time—especially when intentions are clear and strong.

Our discussion on manhood revealed that, to Mr. Basant, being a man means embodying positivity, dedication, and being the pillar of support for family and community. A true man steps forward first in times of crisis, values time, and fulfills responsibilities with courage.

But he also shared the often-unseen struggles men face—the hard work and emotional burdens of managing a household that frequently go unnoticed. This hidden loneliness and effort are parts of true masculinity rarely spoken about openly.

Reflecting on today’s session, Mr. Basant appreciated learning new concepts like “manhood” and “proud story” and valuing the opportunity to express himself freely. He suggested longer, more relaxed conversations in the future to share even more meaningful insights.

This SALT dialogue beautifully highlighted how personal stories and shared reflections strengthen community bonds and build resilience. With openness and collective support, even the toughest challenges can be met with hope and unity.

[Shahrukh Atpade]

Basant's story beautifully captures the responsibility of masculinity, the silent power. The SALT session also highlighted the unity and support within their community.