Unbreakable Mother's Love: Sudha Lohra Didi's Inspiring SALT Conversation

[Nityam Ghosh]

Today, during a SALT session in Bhatpara B Basa Line, I had an incredibly inspiring conversation with 40-year-old Sudha Lohra Didi.

I started by asking, "What is the best thing about your village?" She proudly shared that the greatest beauty of her village is how everyone lives together in unity. In every situation, people step forward to support one another and collaborate on every task.

Next, I asked, "Do you have a proud story that always stays with you, one that fills you with joy and pride when you think about it?" Smiling warmly, she recounted her daughter's story. Her daughter was married, and when she became pregnant, her in-laws were facing financial difficulties. Sudha Didi took full responsibility for her daughter's care herself. She accompanied her to the hospital, stayed by her side every moment until the baby was born, and provided complete support. Today, both her daughter and grandchild (grandson or granddaughter) are perfectly healthy. This is her most cherished and proud story.

*Sudha Didi's inner strengths:*
*Unwavering maternal devotion* : Fully dedicating herself to her daughter's joys and struggles, even when it was her in-laws' responsibility—this is the selfless love of a mother.
*Spirit of cooperation and unity* : Connecting her village's unity to her family's support, she stood like a rock in tough times.

*Sacrifice and patience* : Despite financial hardships, she gave unwavering support without complaint—this emotional resilience and self-confidence led to the healthy birth of her grandchild.

*As a SALT facilitator, what I learned from Sudha Didi's proud story* :

*Emotional strength* : Sharing the story with a smile shows how positive memories build self-confidence and inspire others.

When I asked about her thoughts on the community, she said that many problems arising in the community can be resolved through thoughtful discussions among ourselves. This leads to better solutions, making it possible to address all kinds of issues. This unity is the community's greatest strength.

*When I asked what went well during today's conversation and why ?* Didi replied that it felt wonderful to sit in the field and talk after so many years. Plus, all the questions were about me, my family, and my community, which made it even better.

*What else could have made today's conversation better?*
To this, Didi said time flew by so quickly—she didn't even realize how much had passed. More time would have made it even better.