I am from the family of five and i have two brothers, I am a computer science graduate, i work with The Salvation Army HIV/AIDS Unit, also been involve in alot of local responses, Book writting and partnership meetings.
My dream:
My dream is to see people respond to life issues, also given opportunity to share their own stories with other young people. Most especially not seeing HIV/AIDS as a Moral Issue, rather a Social Issue.
To see generation free of HIV/AIDS.
Welcome to Community Life Competence! Could you please add your photo as it adds a human touch to your profile (go to 'settings' then 'upload photo' and save)
We hope you will enjoy the opportunity to communicate with colleagues and friends in all parts of the world.
Please take some time to walk through this virtual Constellation home.
You will find many opportunities for connecting, sharing and learning.
Connecting: Under the Tab with Members you find people to connect or to reconnect with directly, on their personal pages. The search function will certainly be of help! We encourage you to make your own page your personal ‘home’ which allows for a conversation from human to human - online.
Sharing Experiences: In the blogs we are sharing our experiences with local responses and the competence process. These experiences and stories do not require a discussion or exchange, but comments are welcome! Some stories in the blog link directly to our knowledge asset (see tab knowledge asset).I am sure your experience will be useful to others!
Learning Together: Our Forum is the place where we learn together. If you want to discuss an element of the Competence process, or other issues related to local responses, please contribute to the forum.
Again, we are very happy to have your voice on Community Life Competence and look forward to your contributions.
You will find some suggestions and rules of play under the ‘help’ tab.
Please do not hesitate to contact us if you need any assistance. If you have want support for writing your blog, contact me.
Hi Ukeme, for your facilitation manual check:
1. Our manual in Papua New Guinea, which is simple and clear
2. Our online Apprenticeship for Community Coaching consisting of 6 modules that can help facilitation teams to become fully skilled in AIDS Competence. We propose to have accompaniment of a Constellation coach during this process. Let me know if you want to know more. :
Welcome to the peace competence group, Ukeme! Wonderful to have you with us. Young people can play a key role in peace. Would you like to share a story where community came together to find a peaceful solution?
Dear Ukeme,
I totally agree with you regarding the experiential learning-Sharing-Accompanying. you really well described the issue.
I hope that we'll keep in touch
all the best
Hassan Cherry
How do you relate a Youth Capacity Development (YCD) and Human Capacity Development (HCD) programmes?
Dear ukeme, This is simple for me, we as young people need to stop in many case putting our self away from the general population since we end up their anyways, we need to start thinking holistically when approaching to address Youth Capacities, the Overarching Vision/Dream is the HCD, but we can first stat at looking at YDC once we have clear strategies, we them look at other most-at-risk/vulnerable communities (Sexual minorities, Women etc) But not for getting that with in the Youth population their is these vulnerable groups... Easy to say HCD and YDC is a ll in all one concept used at different level based on the populace
What is your based-line for working with the Orphaned and Vulnerable Children (OVC)?
Not sure what u asking here, But i do not work with OVC's so i need some clarity.. i think my understanding of OVC might be a bit different from yours...because of regional difference. Just to say that I am a UN Volunteer and i am attached to an NGO call Volunteer Youth Corps and their vision is the contribute to youth and Children for them to have better quality of life and access to Services. I have however worked with OVC in the past but it's based on different things HIV, Living conditions, Self-esteem issues, or some other social issues trying to delay or just empower for better future
We deeply respect how you are living your life to make life in Nigeria more healthful and disease-free.
In parallel, we are interested in providing encouragement and tools for needed, successful face-to-face communication and authentic Dialogue with it's new quality of listening-to-learn.
Broken communication can lead to not HIV but perhaps even more deadly disease, HRV which is Human Relationship-Deficiency Virus first expalined to us in Jos last October 2010 --
We are presently working hard to edit a new documentary film about the success of the 200 brave Muslims and Christians in youth interfaith Dialogue -- http://traubman.igc.org/nigeria2010.htm
You asked about overcoming people's resistance to testing. People have many "reasons" and experiences causing them to distrust.
Like the public peace process itself, trust begins with relationships -- time for listening to a person's story, time for empathy, time to share your own story and deep interest in the other person.
Trust cannot be expected or demanded, because it is hard-won and requires you to show that you are trustworthy beginning with your heart connection and sincere expressions of interest in the "other."
Of course, none of this is new to you.
But please know that all of this is universal around our beautiful, perfectly diverse Earth.
Laurence Gilliot
Welcome to Community Life Competence! Could you please add your photo as it adds a human touch to your profile (go to 'settings' then 'upload photo' and save)
We hope you will enjoy the opportunity to communicate with colleagues and friends in all parts of the world.
Please take some time to walk through this virtual Constellation home.
You will find many opportunities for connecting, sharing and learning.
Connecting: Under the Tab with Members you find people to connect or to reconnect with directly, on their personal pages. The search function will certainly be of help! We encourage you to make your own page your personal ‘home’ which allows for a conversation from human to human - online.
Sharing Experiences: In the blogs we are sharing our experiences with local responses and the competence process. These experiences and stories do not require a discussion or exchange, but comments are welcome! Some stories in the blog link directly to our knowledge asset (see tab knowledge asset).I am sure your experience will be useful to others!
Learning Together: Our Forum is the place where we learn together. If you want to discuss an element of the Competence process, or other issues related to local responses, please contribute to the forum.
Again, we are very happy to have your voice on Community Life Competence and look forward to your contributions.
You will find some suggestions and rules of play under the ‘help’ tab.
Please do not hesitate to contact us if you need any assistance. If you have want support for writing your blog, contact me.
Warm regards,
Laurence
Feb 11, 2010
Marlou
Marlou
Feb 12, 2010
Gaston
Gaston
Mar 15, 2010
Gaston
1. Our manual in Papua New Guinea, which is simple and clear
2. Our online Apprenticeship for Community Coaching consisting of 6 modules that can help facilitation teams to become fully skilled in AIDS Competence. We propose to have accompaniment of a Constellation coach during this process. Let me know if you want to know more. :
Facilitators manual-Papua New Guinea.pdf
Mar 18, 2010
Gaston
Mar 18, 2010
Rituu B. Nanda
Jan 13, 2011
Rituu B. Nanda
Feb 14, 2011
Hassan Cherry
I totally agree with you regarding the experiential learning-Sharing-Accompanying. you really well described the issue.
I hope that we'll keep in touch
all the best
Hassan Cherry
Feb 18, 2011
Korey Anthony Chisholm
Apr 28, 2011
Korey Anthony Chisholm
How do you relate a Youth Capacity Development (YCD) and Human Capacity Development (HCD) programmes?
Dear ukeme, This is simple for me, we as young people need to stop in many case putting our self away from the general population since we end up their anyways, we need to start thinking holistically when approaching to address Youth Capacities, the Overarching Vision/Dream is the HCD, but we can first stat at looking at YDC once we have clear strategies, we them look at other most-at-risk/vulnerable communities (Sexual minorities, Women etc) But not for getting that with in the Youth population their is these vulnerable groups... Easy to say HCD and YDC is a ll in all one concept used at different level based on the populace
What is your based-line for working with the Orphaned and Vulnerable Children (OVC)?
Not sure what u asking here, But i do not work with OVC's so i need some clarity.. i think my understanding of OVC might be a bit different from yours...because of regional difference. Just to say that I am a UN Volunteer and i am attached to an NGO call Volunteer Youth Corps and their vision is the contribute to youth and Children for them to have better quality of life and access to Services. I have however worked with OVC in the past but it's based on different things HIV, Living conditions, Self-esteem issues, or some other social issues trying to delay or just empower for better future
Apr 29, 2011
Libby and Len Traubman
Dear Ukeme,
We deeply respect how you are living your life to make life in Nigeria more healthful and disease-free.
In parallel, we are interested in providing encouragement and tools for needed, successful face-to-face communication and authentic Dialogue with it's new quality of listening-to-learn.
Broken communication can lead to not HIV but perhaps even more deadly disease, HRV which is Human Relationship-Deficiency Virus first expalined to us in Jos last October 2010 --
http://traubman.igc.org/nigeriaivorgba.pdf
We are presently working hard to edit a new documentary film about the success of the 200 brave Muslims and Christians in youth interfaith Dialogue -- http://traubman.igc.org/nigeria2010.htm
Please keep on your path of excellence, Ukeme.
May 5, 2011
Libby and Len Traubman
Ukeme,
You asked about overcoming people's resistance to testing. People have many "reasons" and experiences causing them to distrust.
Like the public peace process itself, trust begins with relationships -- time for listening to a person's story, time for empathy, time to share your own story and deep interest in the other person.
Trust cannot be expected or demanded, because it is hard-won and requires you to show that you are trustworthy beginning with your heart connection and sincere expressions of interest in the "other."
Of course, none of this is new to you.
But please know that all of this is universal around our beautiful, perfectly diverse Earth.
Love, Libby and Len
Jun 8, 2011
Rituu B. Nanda
Happy birthday Ukeme! Have a wonderful day.
Mar 7, 2012