Comments - Situation of AIDS Orphans - Community life competence2024-03-29T06:54:50Zhttps://aidscompetence.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=2028109%3ABlogPost%3A8547&xn_auth=noDear Usa Duongsaa
Good Morni…tag:aidscompetence.ning.com,2009-03-04:2028109:Comment:89272009-03-04T05:53:55.948ZAbraham Mutlurihttps://aidscompetence.ning.com/profile/AbrahamMutluri
Dear Usa Duongsaa<br />
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Good Morning<br />
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I am very much thankful to your appreciation and encouragement that is most helpful to me to write some more blogs in AIDS Competence Programme.<br />
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Duongsaa I read you message and case studies. Yes exactly right, the AIDS orphans problem is increasing day by day in the communities. Some times / places that type of discrimination is also there.<br />
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I observed some positive points also there -------<br />
• Few of the children not interest to leave their homes, after death…
Dear Usa Duongsaa<br />
<br />
Good Morning<br />
<br />
I am very much thankful to your appreciation and encouragement that is most helpful to me to write some more blogs in AIDS Competence Programme.<br />
<br />
Duongsaa I read you message and case studies. Yes exactly right, the AIDS orphans problem is increasing day by day in the communities. Some times / places that type of discrimination is also there.<br />
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I observed some positive points also there -------<br />
• Few of the children not interest to leave their homes, after death of their parents. Because children have the emotional attachment with that home. They feels that house was build by my father and mother for me, so we don’t leave from here.<br />
• At the time of sibling separation the elders boys or girls are not accepting the sibling separation and they are drop out from the schools and taking the responsibilities of the families and changing like child headed families<br />
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I am also supporting you that not easy to work with children, particularly infect/affected children. But need to start the child friendly programmes for them. Child to child approach and support groups’ concept will give the more support to AIDS Orphans issues.<br />
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I am also thinking some more discussions and sharing are need on this topic.<br />
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With Regards<br />
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Abraham Mutluri<br />
Andhra Pradesh<br />
India Dear Abraham,
Thank you for…tag:aidscompetence.ning.com,2009-03-04:2028109:Comment:89232009-03-04T03:59:34.366ZUsa Duongsaahttps://aidscompetence.ning.com/profile/UsaDuongsaa
Dear Abraham,<br />
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Thank you for your post. You have touched on a very serious problem which indeed requires serious discussion and both short- and long-term strategies. Last week I talked with several children in lower-northern Thailand, some of whom were infected and some were affected, and there were some heartbreaking stories, as usual. One girl, aged 13, said a school friend had punched her in the face the day before and when she told the teacher about it, the teacher only said "Your friend…
Dear Abraham,<br />
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Thank you for your post. You have touched on a very serious problem which indeed requires serious discussion and both short- and long-term strategies. Last week I talked with several children in lower-northern Thailand, some of whom were infected and some were affected, and there were some heartbreaking stories, as usual. One girl, aged 13, said a school friend had punched her in the face the day before and when she told the teacher about it, the teacher only said "Your friend was just teasing you". Another girl, aged 10, said her friends sometimes said bad things to her ad she just kept quiet about it for fear that, if she told the teacher and the teacher punished them, they would do worse things to her. The same girl, when asked what she would ask for if a fairy gave her 3 wishes, mentioned: her mother being healthy, getting a car for her mother so that she could get to places, and getting a house with space for a stall so that she could sell vegetables to earn some money. The same girl (who was on ARV), when asked whether she wanted to ask any questions herself, came straight on with 2 questions that got me to swallow hard before trying to find the right words to answer: could you tell me from whom I got this virus? Could you tell me whether this virus is curable and how I can treat it? And then there's another girl, aged 9, with the saddest eyes I have ever seen, whose first wish from the fairy is being able to become a doctor so that she can treat her mother. And a quiet boy, aged 12, who couldn't think of what he wanted to become in the future, and couldn't think of a single thing he wished for. And they both admitted they had some deep concerns they never told their mother, teacher, or anyone (me included). And there were others..<br />
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There are so many negatives in these stories, as in other stories and incidents I'm sure all of us have come across. But I think there's also the positive side to it. In those sad eyes, words, answers and questions, I think there're also a lot of love, care and hope that were silently expressed. I think the heartbreaking part is that the children have so much capacity for love and care and forgiveness, and because of that they suffer because they care and can't express it for adults to understand or don't want to express it for fear of upsetting those they love. Such human paradox! I guess that's why it's not easy to work with children, particularly infect/affected children, especially in communities where there's still much stigma and discrimination. But we all have to try.<br />
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On the other hand, there are quite a number of communities with interesting and inspiring responses on the issues, conducted by the people, the health centers, the NGOs, the local government, the schools. I hope other friends will come and share the experiences and/or the resources here. I'm adding my powerpoint here to share some; hopefully the file goes through but it not i will find other ways to post it later.<br />
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Keep sharing and working, and best of luck!<br />
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Usa<a href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/2474298633?profile=original">Community Support to Asian Children -MEX 08.ppt</a> Dear Abraham,
Thank you for…tag:aidscompetence.ning.com,2009-02-24:2028109:Comment:85712009-02-24T03:34:59.919ZLaurence Gilliothttps://aidscompetence.ning.com/profile/LaurenceGilliot
Dear Abraham,<br />
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Thank you for sharing your experience and observations with AIDS Orphans. I can really feel that you have a big heart and that you care for children whether they live with HIV or not.<br />
The issue of AIDS orphans is a hard reality we face today, there is no doubt about that. You describe the challenge well.<br />
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Of course many NGOs contribute greatly in improving the situation of millions of people around the world. They save lifes and give hope, care and support. But we, NGOs,…
Dear Abraham,<br />
<br />
Thank you for sharing your experience and observations with AIDS Orphans. I can really feel that you have a big heart and that you care for children whether they live with HIV or not.<br />
The issue of AIDS orphans is a hard reality we face today, there is no doubt about that. You describe the challenge well.<br />
<br />
Of course many NGOs contribute greatly in improving the situation of millions of people around the world. They save lifes and give hope, care and support. But we, NGOs, institutions and even the government, cannot solve all communities' problems. This is also a reality.<br />
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What we, members of the Constellation for AIDS Competence, propose is a different but complementary way to respond to the issue of HIV. We, as facilitators, stimulate communities to take ownership of the issue of HIV. We help them to see their own potential, by focussing on their strengths rather than the problems.<br />
We <b>S</b>timulate and <b>S</b>upport the community to take action, by <b>A</b>ppreciating their strengths, <b>L</b>istening to them and <b>L</b>earning from them. What we learn, we <b>T</b>ransfer in our own context and in this way we stimulate people to take more action.<br />
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Many of us have experience with communities who were transformed through <b>SALT</b>.<br />
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Just a few examples...<br />
<a href="http://aidscompetence.ning.com/profile/JohnPiermontMontilla">John-Pierre</a> works with street children in the Philippines and stimulates them to take action by themselves. Many of them now go back to school and move out of selling their body...<br />
<a href="http://aidscompetence.ning.com/profile/MLPrabakar">Prabakar</a> told the story about sex workers in India who set up their own savings fund.<br />
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It might be interesting to see who else has experience with AIDS orphans in this community, or with reducing discrimination... so that relatives of these children can take care of them, so that the community can find a way to support its children in a solidary way... sometimes all it takes is to encourage and stimulate them to do it...<br />
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Again, thank you for sharing and I hope others can share their experience around AIDS orphans as well...<br />
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Laurence